1a --- do not remove this line --- Hi, welcome, grab a seat. My name is Janet Swope and I welcome you to Butterfly’s Financial Education video. Since the idea of being on camera for two hours terrifies me I’ve asked to be an animation. I hope you don’t mind. I’ve also asked some other animations to help deliver the message of financial knowledge. I have been a credit counselor and financial educator for many years. For the next two hours we’ll be talking about personal finances. I know two hours is a long time and you have a lot to do. But bear with me, there is a lot to go over and my hope is that at the end of the two hours you will be happy (or at least not upset) that you took the time. Financial hardships happen. They just do. It’s not your fault, it’s not anyone’s fault. And none of us know exactly what the future holds but with financial knowledge and planning many of the more dire consequences can be minimized. A financial crisis can cause a lot of pain, stress and fear. The more you learn the less chance of getting into a situation that hurts. So arm yourselves the best you can with financial knowledge. So to sum up: Financial crises happen. Don’t blame yourself. Ok, so no blame, let’s move on. Let me pause here to say that I’m not talking about how smart you are or how educated you are. Many brilliant and highly educated people have filed bankruptcy. Not to name drop but did you know Abraham Lincoln, Milton Hershey, and Walt Disney have all filed bankruptcy. As a matter of fact people who get into financial difficulties cross the social and economic spectrum. Many celebrities have filed and then rebuilt their financial lives. Again, financial issues happen there is nothing to be ashamed about! We have tried to include knowledge here to prepare you for upcoming bumps in the road. Most of us did not have a course in high school or college that dealt with personal finances. Our parents did not like to talk about it considering it rude or none of our business. So while our society is now talking about once taboo subjects we still don’t talk about our finances with each other. When is the last time you said “too much information” because your friend was talking about how much they are saving for retirement or that they may be spending more than they are earning. My guess is never because we just don’t bring up these facts in conversation. Because all people filing for bankruptcy are required to take a course like this one, you may be thinking that it’s going to be worthless to you or that you are well versed in personal finance and this course is a waste of your time. I do hear you but give it a chance you may learn a new way of looking at something or be reminded of some prior knowledge that may come in handy. Should you have any questions regarding the material you are about to view, call Butterfly at its toll free number. I or another trained financial counselor will be happy to answer your questions. For those viewers who are on fixed incomes Butterfly does offer separate materials specifically for the fixed income situations. This information is available free on Butterfly’s website under the FE Library. Click on Articles on Financial Topics. In Unit 1 we’re going to discuss The Role of Money. Let’s start with our feelings about money and how that impacts the way we live. I’m sure we all feel differently about money and what it means to us. While some people may feel money equals power others may feel that it means security or happiness to them. How can money equal power? Unless you’re talking about a rich CEO who has all the power, is that what you mean? Well think about this…is there anyone you know that will buy things for you but insists on having it their way? For example parents who pay for their daughter’s wedding but approved the guest list, pick the place and maybe even the music instead of allowing the daughter to direct her own affair? Those parents would be using their money as power to get their way. Oh. Now think about someone who uses money as security. What would that look like? Perhaps someone who saves all the time afraid to spend money because they feel more secure knowing they have a lump sum in the bank if they ever need it. Yes, that’s right. And how about seeing money as happiness? Someone who thinks if they have enough money they will be happy. If they just got a better job, a raise, won the lottery then they would be happy. Or they can feel happy when they spend money. I always get a rush when I go on a spending spree. It feels good. We usually refer to the group you’re in as spenders. Are we leaving anyone out? People who see money as evil. I have an uncle who always says too much money corrupts. Can anyone see the downsides of any of these money attitudes? I know when I do go on a shopping spree while it does feel good at the time I’m not so happy when I look at my credit card bill. That’s a good point these money attitudes can lessen our ability to plan and use our money to achieve our goals. The person who uses money as security and therefore saves all their discretional income may miss the opportunity to use their money to better their situation. Perhaps using it on an education or advertising a small business to get it off the ground? The person who sees money as power may have had the wedding they wanted for their daughter but now finds that they cannot fund their retirement or another child’s education. The person who sees money as evil may self-sabotage so they never get ahead. We cannot totally eradicate our feelings about money in order to see it only as a means to an end but we can understand our feelings better in order to start the process of financial planning with a purpose in mind. Try this exercise: Get a piece of paper and write down your first reaction to what you would do if $1000 came to you by surprise. Look at your answer does it give you any insight on your money attitude? Do you think you would do something different with it if you gave yourself time to think about it, plan for it? Let me suggest that money is not power, it's not happiness, it's not security, and it's not love or evil. Money is nothing more than a TOOL. And like any tool, if you don't use it right, someone can get hurt. There are businesses that prey upon people's lack of financial Knowledge. These businesses make huge profits, and these profits are comprised of our hard earned money. If you consider money as a tool you can use this tool to achieve YOUR goals. Goals are going to differ from person to person. Each of us has a different view of what is going to make us happy. By reaching your financial goals you are using money to get what you want. One thing that I want you to do is to talk about money. Here's an example, a couple needs a new car. She's thinking of something with low monthly payments, that's easy on the gas. He's dreaming of a SUV. If they're not communicating, somebody is going to be unhappy. They need transportation, but they want different things. And that leads me to the next thing I want to talk to you about: Needs versus wants. We all have needs and wants, but we don't usually distinguish between them. Noticing the difference is a big step to achieving your financial goals. As human beings, we all need food, clothing, and shelter -- basic necessities. Let’s say you want to buy a house. Your basic NEED for shelter may be satisfied by renting an apartment, but you WANT a house. Now more than just wanting any house you fall in love with a certain house. There is nothing wrong with that, it’s just that along with the basic NEED you have for a house you WANT five bedrooms, three baths, an open concept and a large gourmet kitchen. You can see that there may be a lot of wants in each of our needs. A "need" just has to serve the function that's a necessity to us. Today, many people consider cell phones, cable TV, salon services, vacations and new clothes "needs"—things that they MUST have. We don't need any of those things for survival. BUT It’s okay to fulfill not just your needs but wants too. We just need to realize the difference. No one I know has unlimited funds, so we all need to make choices on the how we spend our money. Looking at needs verses wants will help us make some decisions. We will be better served by saving for emergencies and our old age before we buy extras.